The first step when discussing chronic pain for pancreatitis is to be comfortable talking about it.  In my case, admitting that I had chronic pain felt like announcing to the world that “I am a wimp and a failure.”  I became anxious, and I think my body language conveyed the idea that I didn’t deserve to be taken seriously.

After I learned to accept that pain was not a weakness in my character, I was able to discuss what it felt like, how often it bothered me, and how bad it gets in a more matter-of-fact way.  This also conveyed that I expected and deserved to be listened to.

Being comfortable also reduces the chance that your emotions could take over the situation.  Emotions are part of the examination, no doubt. Physicians will ask you how the pain impacts your quality of life, but they will also look for signs that suggest you are exaggerating your situation.

“Histrionics” is the term that is often used to describe overly dramatic examinations.  Bizarre and unusual descriptions or peculiar behavior can all be seen as dramatic.  Avoid focusing on frustrating or failed previous physician care because this can also side-track your doctor from properly treating chronic pain.